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About the Book
"Your Marriage and Your Ancestry" by D. K. Olukoya delves into the impact that ancestral ties can have on marriage and relationships. The book explores how unresolved issues from past generations can affect current marriages, and offers guidance on how to break free from negative ancestral patterns and create a healthy, fulfilling marriage. It emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing ancestral influences in order to build a strong and successful marriage.
Susannah Spurgeon
Susannah Spurgeon was the wife of the famous Baptist preacher of the second half of the nineteenth-century, Charles Haddon Spurgeon.
She was born Susannah Thompson in January, 1832. Her early years were spent in London, where she often accompanied her parents or elderly friends to the New Park Street Chapel. She was converted upon hearing a sermon at the old Poultry Chapel by Rev S. B. Bergne from Romans 10:8 â âFrom that service I date the dawning of the true light in my soulâ. But her initial joy was replaced by âseasons of darkness, despondency, and doubtâ, and it was not until she was helped by the new, youthful, pastor of New Park Street â Spurgeon â that she found âthe peace and pardon [her] weary soul was longing forâ.
Her friendship with Spurgeon grew, and they were married in January 1856. Their twin sons, Charles Jr. and Thomas, were born in September, 1857.
Susannah became a true partner in her husbandâs ministry. Spurgeon would call his âwifeyâ to come and help him on Saturday afternoons. Together they would read commentaries and discuss the Scripture for the next dayâs sermon. If he was discouraged, she would read to him. She counselled women and girls in the church and assisted female candidates at baptismal services. Her activities were restricted at times when she became chronically ill in the late 1860s, and was often confined to her room, or visited Brighton for relief.
In 1875, when she had proof-read the first volume of her husbandâs book Lectures to My Students, she expressed a desire to âplace it in the hands of every minister in Englandâ â and so began the ministry of her Book Fund. Within a year, over 3000 volumes of theological books had been distributed by the Fund; by the time of her death, over 200,000 volumes had been sent out. Today, the supplying of theological books free to ministers and missionaries continues through the Book Fund of the Banner of Truth Trust, modelled upon that started by Susannah Spurgeon.
Susannahâs work expanded to include other ministries, such as the Pastorsâ Aid Fund and the Westwood Clothing Society.
In her remaining years, following Charlesâ death in 1892, she assisted Joseph Harrald in compiling C.H. Spurgeonâs Autobiography and also wrote a number of devotional books, including Free Grace and Dying Love, published by the Trust (which volume contains a Life of Susannah Spurgeon by Charles Ray). She died in October, 1903, after a severe attack of pneumonia from which she never recovered.
How I Approach God When Feeling Rotten
A vague bad feeling that you are a crummy person is not the same as conviction for sin. Feeling rotten is not the same as repentance. This morning I began to pray, and felt unworthy to be talking to the Creator of the universe. It was a vague sense of unworthiness. So I told him so. Now what? Nothing changed until I began to get specific about my sins. Crummy feelings can be useful if they lead to conviction for sins. Vague feelings of being a bad person are not very helpful. The fog of unworthiness needs to take shape into clear dark pillars of disobedience. Then you can point to them and repent and ask for forgiveness and take aim to blow them up. So I began to call to mind the commands I frequently break. These are the ones that came to mind. Love God with all our heart, soul, mind and strength. Not 95%, 100%. (Matthew 22:37) Love your neighbor as you love yourself. Be as eager for things to go well for him as you are for things to go well for you. (Matthew 22:39) Do all things without grumbling. No grumblingâinside or outside. (Philippians 2:14) Cast all your anxieties on himâso you are not being weighed down by it anymore. (1 Peter 5:7) Only say things that give grace to othersâespecially those closest to you. (Ephesians 4:29) Redeem the time. Donât fritter or dawdle. (Ephesians 5:16) Set your mind on things that are above. Connect all your thoughts to Christ. (Colossians 3:2) Do not return evil for evilâlike when your wife or daughter says something you donât like. (1 Thessalonians 5:15) Rejoice always, and again I say rejoice. Always. If sorrowful, keep rejoicing. (Philippians 4:4; 2 Corinthians 6:10) Give thanks in all circumstances. All. All. All. (1 Thessalonians 5:18) So much for any pretensions to great holiness! Iâm undone. But now it is specific. I look it in the eye. Iâm not whining about feeling crummy. Iâm apologizing to Christ for not keeping all that he commanded. Iâm broken and Iâm angry at my sin. I want to kill it, not me. Iâm not suicidal. Iâm a sin hater and a sin murderer (âPut to death what is earthly in youâ Colossians 3:5. âPut to death the deeds of the bodyâ Romans 8:13.) In this conflict, I hear the promise, âIf we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousnessâ (1John 1:9). Peace rises. Prayer feels possible and right and powerful again. Article by John Piper Founder & Teacher, desiringGod.org