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About the Book
In "Destiny: Step Into Your Purpose," T.D. Jakes explores the concept of destiny and how individuals can embrace and fulfill their unique purpose in life. He provides guidance and insights on how to overcome obstacles, discover one's passions, and maximize potential to achieve personal fulfillment and success. Jakes emphasizes the importance of self-discovery, faith, and perseverance in unlocking one's destiny.
Jim Elliot
EARLY LIFE
Jim Elliot began his life in Portland, Oregon in the USA. His mother, Clara, was a chiropractor and his father, Fred, was a minister. They married and settled in Seattle, WA where they welcomed their first son, Robert in 1921.
Later they relocated the family to Portland where Herbert arrived in 1924, Jim in 1927, and Jane in 1932.
Jim knew Christ from an early age and was never afraid to speak about Him to his friends. At age six Jim told his mother, âNow, mama, the Lord Jesus can come whenever He wants. He could take our whole family because Iâm saved now, and Jane is too young to know Him yet.â
THE YEARS THAT CEMENTED HIS DESIRE TO SERVE THE LORD IN MISSIONS
Jim entered Benson Polytechnic High School in 1941. He carried a small Bible with him and, an excellent speaker; he was often found speaking out for Christ. He and his friends were not afraid to step out and find adventure. One thing Jim didnât have time for in those early years were girls. He was once quoted as telling a friend, âDomesticated males arenât much use for adventure.â
In 1945 Jim traveled to Wheaton, IL to attend Wheaton College. His main goal while there was to devote himself to God. He recognized the importance of discipline in pursuing this goal. He would start each morning with prayer and Bible study. In his journal he wrote, âNone of it gets to be âold stuffâ for it is Christ in print, the Living Word. We wouldnât think of rising in the morning without a face-wash, but we often neglect the purgative cleansing of the Word of the Lord. It wakes us up to our responsibility.â
Jimâs desire to serve God by taking His gospel to unreached people of the world began to grow while at Wheaton. The summer of 1947 found him in Mexico and that time influenced his decision to minister in Central America after he finished college.
Jim met Elisabeth Howard during his third year at Wheaton. He did ask her for a date which she accepted and then later cancelled. They spent the next years as friends and after she finished at Wheaton they continued to correspond. As they came to know each other there was an attraction, but Jim felt he needed to unencumbered by worldly concerns in order to devote himself completely to God.
In addition to his hope to one day travel to a foreign country to share Christ with the unchurched of the world, he also felt the need to share with people in the United States. On Sundays while at Wheaton he would often ride the train into Chicago and talk to people in the train station about Christ. He often felt ineffective in his work as the times of knowingly leading people to Christ were few. He once wrote, âNo fruit yet. Why is that Iâm so unproductive? I cannot recall leading more than one or two into the kingdom. Surely this is not the manifestation of the power of the Resurrection. I feel as Rachel, âGive me children, or else I die.ââ
After college with no clear answer as to working for the Lord in a foreign country, Jim returned home to Portland. He continued his disciplined Bible study as well as correspondence with Elisabeth Howard whom he called Betty.
They both felt a strong attraction to each other during this time, but also felt that the Lord may have been calling them to be unmarried as they served Him.
In June of 1950 he travelled to Oklahoma to attend the Summer Institute of Linguistics. There he learned how to study unwritten languages. He was able to work with a missionary to the Quichuas of the Ecuadorian jungle. Because of these lessons he began to pray for guidance about going to Ecuador and later felt compelled to answer the call there.
Elisabeth Elliot wrote in Shadow of the Almighty:
âThe breadth of Jimâs vision is suggested in this entry from the journal:
August 9. âGod just now gave me faith to ask for another young man to go, perhaps not this fall, but soon, to join the ranks in the lowlands of eastern Ecuador. There we must learn: 1) Spanish and Quichua, 2) each other, 3) the jungle and independence, and 4) God and Godâs way of approach to the highland Quichua. From thence, by His great hand, we must move to the Ecuadorian highlands with several young Indians each, and begin work among the 800,000 highlanders. If God tarries, the natives must be taught to spread southward with the message of the reigning Christ, establishing New Testament groups as they go. Thence the Word must go south into Peru and Bolivia. The Quichuas must be reached for God! Enough for policy. Now for prayer and practice.
THE ECUADOR YEARS
In February 1952 Jim finally left America to travel to Ecuador with Pete Fleming. In May Elisabeth moved to Quito and though they didnât feel the need to get engaged she and Jim did begin a courtship.
In August Jim left Elisabeth in Quito and travelled with Pete to Shell Mera. At the Mission Aviation Fellowship headquarters in Shell Mera, Jim and Pete learned more about the Acua Indians, a people group that was largely unreached and very savage.
Leaving Shell Mera, Pete and Jim moved on to Shandia where Jim was captivated by the Quichua. He felt very strongly that this was exactly where God intended for him to work to spread the Gospel.
While Jim was in Shandia, Elisabeth was working to learn more about the Colorado Indians near Santa Domingo. In January of 1953 he went to Quito and she met him there and they were finally engaged. They married in October of that year and their only child Valerie was born in 1955.
They settled in Shandia and continued their work with the Quichua Indians. It was Jimâs desire to be able to reach the Waodoni tribe that lived deep in the jungles and had little contact with the outside world. A Waodoni woman who had left the tribe was taken in by the missionaries and helped them to learn the language.
Jim, along with Pete, Ed McCully, Roger Youderian, and their pilot Nate Saint began to search by plane in hopes of finding a way to contact the Waodoni. The found a sandbar in the middle of the Curaray River that worked as a landing strip for the plane and it was there that they first made contact with the Waodoni. They were elated to be able to finally be able to attempt to share the love of Christ with this people group.
After their first meeting, one of the tribe, a man they called George lied to the tribe about the menâs intentions. This lie led the Waodoni warriors to plan an attack for when the missionaries returned. The men did return on January 8, 1956 and were surprised by ten members of the tribe who massacred the missionaries.
Jimâs short life that was filled with the desire to share Godâs love can be summed up by a quote that is attributed to him. âHe is no fool who gives that which he cannot keep, to gain what he cannot lose.â
what if my singleness never ends
It happened suddenly this past May, the moment Iâd prayed for and sought after for quite some time: the moment I became okay with lifelong singleness. Something inside me relaxed as I sat at a coffee shop, my mind not even on relationships but preoccupied with a menu over dinner with friends. And then suddenly, I felt content to be single â not only for another few months, or even years, but even until the day I die, if God chooses that for me. âI donât want to skip what God chooses to give me during singleness.â More than ever before, the years stretching out before me donât seem like a romance-less, spouse-less, and (okay, letâs face it) sex-less gray void. It was a beautiful moment that could come only from God, a moment of triumph over an idol that has long battled for the throne of my heart. Whether itâs for a season or a lifetime, Iâve found that I donât want to skip what God chooses to give me during singleness. Already Loved The more weddings I attend (which is several a year at this stage of life), the more the feeling sinks in that I may never be a bride. But the feeling isnât altogether sad. Because Iâm already dressed in white, you see. My friendsâ immaculate dresses and the wedding day itself symbolize something mysterious and beautiful: the ârobe of righteousnessâ Godâs people already wear (Isaiah 61:10) and the âfine linen, bright and pureâ we will put on at the wedding feast of the Lamb (Revelation 19:8). Iâm already pursued by someone who wove the very sinews of my being together. Iâm already loved with a love that will outlast every other. Iâm already known more intimately than I can fathom. Itâs so easy to read that last paragraph and think âso clichĂ©,â especially since this is yet another  Christian article about singleness. Just be still. Do you realize what that paragraph means? Youâre known just as you are (1 Corinthians 13:12). Even the inmost places of your heart â the darkest, the brightest, the most wounded, the most joyful, the most romantic â God knows and comprehends them to their depths. He cares for your unspoken and most intimate needs. There isnât a thought you can speak before God knows itâs there (Psalm 139:4). Dwell on that. Do Godâs presence and promises carry so little preciousness that we can scoff and declare them âclichĂ©â? Faulty Assumptions So often, we spout inane phrases to single people like âGod will bring you the right guy.â They reveal the heart so completely: I have to have a romantic relationship in my life at some point to be whole. We might subtly think, I donât have to have it now, God. Or even next month. But at some point, God, youâve gotta bring someone for me to marry. But he doesnât. God does not have to bring us someone to marry. He simply is not obligated to do anything for us that is not for his glory and for our joy in him. And since weâre not all-knowing, we cannot claim to know what will give us the most long-term joy. We can make guesses, certainly. But the ultimate decision is up to our God, who has never ceased to provide exactly what his people need â from the garments of skin worn by Adam and Eve (Genesis 3:21) to our own daily bread (Matthew 6:11). âI am already loved with a love that will outlast every other.â Iâm not  saying you wonât have difficult days where you yearn to be a husband or wife (I have those days too!), but I am saying that Jesus will meet you in those difficult times. He is gloriously gracious like that. The Spirit is willing and able to teach your heart many things, including contentment in singleness as long as God sees fit â and even if itâs lifelong. Donât get me wrong: seeking marriage is great. If youâre interested in a godly someone, use wisdom and discernment and be intentional about it. But donât fret. You may marry that person, and you may not. Whatever happens, donât let it overshadow what God has already done for you and the glorious place you are headed. Three Suggestions âThatâs great,â you may say as you read this. âBut how can I do that?â I donât pretend to know the complete answer to that question, but here are three suggestions that have helped me. 1. Recognize that you canât be content on your own. Contentment is a work of God (Philippians 4:11â13). Pray to him for it. Lay your will and your heart down completely, and not in a way where youâre trying to be holy and spiritual so that you can get the âtrue prizeâ in your eyes. God can change your heart from that too; just ask. He is a Father who listens to his children. 2. Second, donât surround yourself with romance. Iâm not saying avoid all your friendsâ weddings â each is a time for rejoicing and celebrating Godâs work in their lives! But donât inundate yourself with romantic comedies and TV shows and books and other media that are constantly focused on romance. Doing this can easily irritate wounds and give a foothold for envy and comparison to wreak havoc on your emotions. 3. And third, enjoy singleness. Seriously. If youâre not content in singleness, then you wonât be content in marriage. Spouses and significant others are not contentment charms; wedding vows are not magic incantations that produce lifelong fulfillment. âIf youâre not content in singleness, then you wonât be content in marriage.â Give your time to ministering to friends and your community. Pursue your interests intently. Learn to manage your money. These activities do not have to be less fulfilling just because you are spouse-less! Believe it or not, if you do marry, there will be times when you yearn for singleness, and it isnât likely to come again (at least not in the same way). A Better Goal So I come alongside you as a fellow single, encouraging you to join me in laying down the idol of romance. Letâs prepare now to better serve a future spouse or, if we never marry, to enjoy Jesus no matter married or not. Marriage is great, but it isnât ultimate. The honor of âultimateâ remains with our true romance: the God who creates, sustains, intervenes in, and pursues the hearts of his people from eternity to eternity (Psalm 90:1â2). Amen.