About the Book
"Remember Me" is a novella that explores themes of grief, loss, and healing. The story follows Elizabeth who is struggling to come to terms with the death of her husband and the challenges of raising a teenage daughter alone. Through unexpected encounters and profound conversations with a mysterious stranger, Elizabeth begins to find hope and healing as she learns to remember her past with gratitude and embrace the future with faith.
Isaac Watts
"Joy to the world, the Lord is come / Let earth receive her King / Let every heart, prepare him room / And heaven and nature sing."
In his later years, Isaac Watts once complained about hymn singing in church: "To see the dull indifference, the negligent and thoughtless air that sits upon the faces of a whole assembly, while the psalm is upon their lips, might even tempt a charitable observer to suspect the fervency of their inward religion."
He had been bemoaning such since his late teens. His father, tired of his complaints, challenged him to write something better. The following week, the adolescent Isaac presented his first hymn to the church, "Behold the Glories of the Lamb," which received an enthusiastic response. The career of the "Father of English Hymnody" had begun.
Head of a genius
At Isaac's birth in 1674, his father was in prison for his Nonconformist sympathies (that is, he would not embrace the established Church of England). His father was eventually freed (and fathered seven more children), but Isaac respected his courage and remembered his mother's tales of nursing her children on the jail steps.
Young Isaac showed genius early. He was learning Latin by age 4, Greek at 9, French (which he took up to converse with his refugee neighbors) at 11, and Hebrew at 13. Several wealthy townspeople offered to pay for his university education at Oxford or Cambridge, which would have led him into Anglican ministry. Isaac refused and at 16 went to London to study at a leading Nonconformist academy. Upon graduation, he spent five years as a private tutor.
His illness and unsightly appearance took its toll on his personal life. His five-foot, pale, skinny frame was topped by a disproportionately oversized head. Almost every portrait of him depicts him in a large gown with large foldsâan apparent attempt by the artists to disguise his homeliness. This was probably the reason for Elizabeth Singer's rejection of his marriage proposal. As one biographer noted, "Though she loved the jewel, she could not admire the casket [case] which contained it."
Though German Lutherans had been singing hymns for 100 years, John Calvin had urged his followers to sing only metrical psalms; English Protestants had followed Calvin's lead.
Watts's 1707 publication of Hymns and Spiritual Songs technically wasn't a collection of hymns or metrical psalms, but it was a collection of consequence. In fact, it contained what would become some of the most popular English hymns of all time, such as "When I Survey the Wondrous Cross."
Watts didn't reject metrical psalms; he simply wanted to see them more impassioned. "They ought to be translated in such a manner as we have reason to believe David would have composed them if he had lived in our day," he wrote. Psalms of David Imitated in the Language of the New Testament followed in 1719.
Many of his English colleagues couldn't recognize these translations. How could "Joy to the World" really be Psalm 98? Or "Jesus Shall Reign Where'er the Sun" be Psalm 72>, or "O God Our Help in Ages Past" be Psalm 90?
Watts was unapologetic, arguing that he deliberately omitted several psalms and large parts of others, keeping portions "as might easily and naturally be accommodated to the various occasions of Christian life, or at least might afford us some beautiful allusions to Christian affairs." Furthermore, where the psalmist fought with personal enemies, Watts turned the biblical invective against spiritual adversaries: sin, Satan, and temptation. Finally, he said, "Where the flights of his faith and love are sublime, I have often sunk the expressions within the reach of an ordinary Christian."
Such looseness brought criticism. "Christian congregations have shut out divinely inspired psalms and taken in Watts's flights of fancy," protested one detractor. Others dubbed the new songs "Watts's whims."
But after church splits, pastor firings, and other arguments, Watts's paraphrases won out. "He was the first who taught the Dissenters to write and speak like other men, by showing them that elegance might consist with piety," wrote the famed lexicographer (and Watts's contemporary) Samuel Johnson.
More than a poet, however, Watts was also a scholar of wide reputation, especially in his later years. He wrote nearly 30 theological treatises; essays on psychology, astronomy, and philosophy; three volumes of sermons; the first children's hymnal; and a textbook on logic that served as a standard work on the subject for generations.
But his poetry remains his lasting legacy and earned him acclaim on both sides of the Atlantic. Benjamin Franklin published his hymnal, Cotton Mather maintained a long correspondence, and John Wesley acknowledged him as a geniusâthough Watts maintained that Charles Wesley's "Wrestling Jacob" was worth all of his own hymns.
How to Recognize the Holy Spirit
Of all the blessings that are ours in Christ, is any greater than the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit? The Spirit is âthe sum of the blessings Christ sought, by what he did and suffered in the work of redemption,â Jonathan Edwards writes (Works of Jonathan Edwards, 5:341). The Spirit illumines our Saviorâs face (John 16:14). The Spirit puts âAbba! Father!â in our mouths (Romans 8:15). The Spirit plants heaven in our hearts (Ephesians 1:13â14). For all the blessings the Spirit brings, however, many of us labor under confusion when it comes to recognizing the Spiritâs presence. As a new believer, I was told that speaking in tongues and prophesying were two indispensable signs of the Spiritâs power. Perhaps others of us, without focusing the lens so narrowly, likewise identify the Spiritâs presence most readily with his miraculous gifts: visions, healings, impressions, and more. âOf all the blessings that are ours in Christ, is any greater than the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit?â To be sure, the Spirit does reveal himself through such wonders (1 Corinthians 12:8â11), and Christians today should âearnestly desireâ them (1 Corinthians 14:1). Nevertheless, when Paul tells the Galatians to âwalk by the Spiritâ and âkeep in step with the Spiritâ (Galatians 5:16, 25), he focuses their attention not on the Spiritâs gifts, but on the Spiritâs fruit. So if we want to know whether we are keeping in step with the Spirit, or whether we need to find his footsteps again, we would do well to consider love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Fruit of the Spirit In order to understand the Spiritâs fruit, we need to remember the context in which it appears. Paulâs list came at first to a community at odds with each other. The apostle found it necessary to warn the Galatians not to âbite and devour one another,â nor to âbecome conceited, provoking one another, envying one anotherâ (Galatians 5:15, 26). The Galatians, in turning from Godâs grace in the gospel (Galatians 1:6), had evidently begun to turn on one another. In this context, the works of the flesh and the fruit of the Spirit describe two communities: the anti-community of those in the flesh, seeking a righteousness based on their works (Galatians 5:19â21); and the true community of those in the Spirit, justified through faith alone in Christ alone (Galatians 5:22â23). As we use Paulâs list to examine ourselves, then, we need to ask if these graces mark us, not when we sit in peaceful isolation, but when we move among Godâs people. I may appear patient, gentle, and kind when alone in my apartment, but what about when I am with the church? Who we are around others â baffling others, irritating others, oblivious others â reveals how far we have come in bearing the Spiritâs fruit. Now, what are these nine clusters of fruit that manifest the Spiritâs presence? To keep the survey manageable, we will include only one or two angles on each virtue, and restrict ourselves mostly to Paulâs letters. Love: Do you labor for the good of your brothers and sisters? When God pours his love into our hearts through the Spirit (Romans 5:5), our posture changes: once curved inward in self-preoccupation, we now straighten our backs, lift our heads, and begin to forget ourselves in the interests of others (Philippians 2:1â4). We find our hearts being knit together with people we once would have disregarded, judged, or even despised (Colossians 2:2; Romans 12:16). Our love no longer depends on finding something lovely; having felt the love of Christ (Galatians 2:20), we carry love with us wherever we go. âWho we are around others reveals how far we have come in bearing the Spiritâs fruit.â Such love compels us to labor for the good of our brothers and sisters (1 Thessalonians 1:3), to patiently bear with people we find vexing (Ephesians 4:2), and to care more about our brotherâs spiritual welfare than our own spiritual freedom (1 Corinthians 8:1). No matter our position in the community, we gladly consider ourselves as servants (Galatians 5:13), and are learning to ask not, âWho will meet my needs today?â but rather, âWhose needs can I meet today?â Better by far to carry even an ounce of this love in our hearts than to enjoy all the worldâs wealth, comforts, or acclaim. For on the day when everything else passes away, love will remain (1 Corinthians 13:7â8). Joy: Do you delight in the Christlikeness of Godâs people? For Paul, the fellowship of Godâs people was not peripheral to Christian joy. He could write to Timothy, âI long to see you, that I may be filled with joyâ (2 Timothy 1:4), or to the Philippians, âIn every prayer of mine for you all [I make] my prayer with joyâ (Philippians 1:4). To be sure, the joy of the Spirit is, first and foremost, joy in our Lord Jesus (Philippians 4:4). But genuine joy in Christ overflows to all who are being remade in his image. By faith, we have seen the resplendent glory of our King â and now we delight to catch his reflection in the faces of the saints. The pinnacle of our horizontal joy, however, is not simply in being with Godâs people, but in seeing them look like Jesus. âComplete my joy,â Paul writes to the Philippians, âby being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mindâ (Philippians 2:2). What would complete your joy? When we walk by the Spirit, the maturity of Godâs people completes our joy. We rejoice when we see humility triumph over pride, lust fall before a better pleasure, the timid speak the gospel with boldness, and fathers lead their families in the fear of the Lord. Peace: Do you strive to maintain the unity of the Spirit, even at significant personal cost? The Holy Spirit is the great unifier of the church. Because of Jesusâs peacemaking work on the cross, the Spirit makes Jew and Gentile âone new manâ (Ephesians 2:15); he gathers former enemies as âmembers of the household of Godâ (Ephesians 2:19); he builds us all âinto a holy temple in the Lordâ (Ephesians 2:21â22). No matter how different we seem from the person in the next pew, we share a body, we share a home, we share a sanctuary â all because we share the same Lord, and will one day share the same heaven (Ephesians 4:4â6). âKindness receives an offense, refashions it in the factory of our souls, and then sends it back as a blessing.â Those who walk by the Spirit, then, do not grieve him by tearing down what he has built up (Ephesians 4:29â30), but rather âpursue what makes for peaceâ (Romans 14:19): We ask for forgiveness first, even when the majority of the fault lies with the other person. We renounce unwarranted suspicions, choosing rather to assume the best. We abhor all gossip, and instead honor our brothers behind their backs. And when we must engage in conflict, we âaim for restorationâ so that we might âlive in peaceâ (2 Corinthians 13:11). Patience: Are you growing in your ability to overlook offenses? As a fruit of the Spirit, patience is more than the ability to sit calmly in traffic or to wait at the doctorâs office well past your appointment time. Patience is the inner spiritual strength (Colossians 1:11) that enables us to receive an offense full in the face, and then look right over it. Patient people are like God: âslow to angerâ (Exodus 34:6), even when confronted with severe and repeated provocation (Romans 2:4; 1 Timothy 1:16). Patience is integral to one of the churchâs primary responsibilities: discipleship. When Paul exhorted Timothy to âpreach the word . . . in season and out of season,â he told him to do so âwith complete patienceâ (2 Timothy 4:2; cf. 3:10â11). Ministry in the church, no matter our role, places us around people whose progress is much slower than we would like. We will find ourselves around âthe idle, . . . the fainthearted, . . . the weak,â and instead of throwing up our hands, we must âbe patient with them allâ (1 Thessalonians 5:14). We must come alongside the plodding, stumbling saint, and remember that he will one day shine like the sun (Matthew 13:43). Kindness: Do you not only overlook offenses, but also repay them with love? It is one thing to receive an offense and quietly walk away. It is quite another to receive an offense, refashion it in the factory of your soul, and then send it back as a blessing. The former is patience; the latter is kindness (Romans 2:4â5; Titus 3:4â5; Ephesians 4:32). Spirit-wrought kindness creates parents who discipline their children with a steady, tender voice; sufferers who respond to ignorant, insensitive âcomfortâ with grace; wives and husbands who repay their spousesâ sharp word with a kiss. This fruit of the Spirit has not yet matured in us unless we are ready to show kindness, not only to those who will one day thank us for it, but also to âthe ungrateful and the evilâ (Luke 6:35). The kind are able to give a blessing, to receive a curse in return, and then to go on giving blessings (Romans 12:14). Goodness: Do you dream up opportunities to be helpful? Outside the moment of offense, those who walk by the Spirit carry with them a general disposition to be useful, generous, and helpful. They do not need to be told to pitch in a hand when the dishes need drying or the trash needs emptying, but get to work readily and with a good will. âJust as no one can sit beneath a waterfall and stay dry, so no one can gaze on this Jesus and stay fruitless.â Such people, however, do not simply do good when they stumble upon opportunities for doing so; they âresolve for goodâ (2 Thessalonians 1:11), putting their imagination to work in the service of as-yet-unimagined good deeds as they seek to âdiscern what is pleasing to the Lordâ (Ephesians 5:8â10). They follow the counsel of Charles Spurgeon: âLet us be on the watch for opportunities of usefulness; let us go about the world with our ears and eyes open, ready to avail ourselves of every occasion for doing good; let us not be content till we are useful, but make this the main design and ambition of our livesâ (The Soul-Winner, 312). Faithfulness: Do you do what you say youâll do, even in the smallest matters? The faithfulness of God consists, in part, of his always doing what he says he will do: âHe who calls you is faithful; he will surely do itâ (1 Thessalonians 5:24). The faithfulness of Godâs people consists, likewise, in our making every effort to do what we say weâll do, even when it hurts. The Spirit makes us strive to say with Paul, âAs surely as God is faithful, our word to you has not been Yes and Noâ (2 Corinthians 1:18). The faithful build such a trustworthy reputation that, when they fail to follow through on their word, others do not say, âWell, you know him,â but are rather surprised. If we say weâll come to small group, we come. If we commit to cleaning the bathroom, we clean it. If we agree to call someone on Thursday at 4:00, we call on Thursday at 4:00. We labor to be faithful, even if our areas of responsibility right now are only âa littleâ (Matthew 25:21), knowing that how we handle little responsibilities reveals how we will handle big ones (Luke 16:10; 2 Timothy 2:2). Gentleness: Do you use your strength to serve the weak? Gentleness is far from the manicured niceness it is sometimes portrayed to be. âGentleness in the Bible is emphatically not a lack of strength,â but rather âthe godly exercise of power,â David Mathis writes. When Jesus came to save us sinners, he robed himself with gentleness (Matthew 11:29; 2 Corinthians 10:1). When we do our own work of restoring our brothers and sisters from sin, we are to wear the same clothing (Galatians 6:1). Gentleness does not prevent the godly from ever expressing anger, but they are reluctant to do so; they would far rather correct others âwith love in a spirit of gentlenessâ (1 Corinthians 4:21). âIn making our home with him, Christ makes our hearts a heaven.â No wonder Paul pairs gentleness with humility in Ephesians 4:2. As one Greek lexicon puts it, gentleness requires ânot being overly impressed by a sense of oneâs self-importance.â In the face of personal offense, the proud unleash their anger in order to assert their own significance. The humble are more concerned with the offenderâs soul than their own self-importance, and so they channel their strength in the service of gentle restoration. Self-control: Do you refuse your fleshâs cravings? Scripture gives us no rosy pictures of self-control. Paul writes, âEvery athlete exercises self-control in all things. . . . I discipline my body and keep it under controlâ (1 Corinthians 9:25, 27). The Greek word for discipline here means âto give a black eye, strike in the face.â Paulâs use is metaphorical, but the point still holds: self-control hurts. It requires us to say a merciless âNo!â to any craving that draws us away from the Spirit and into the flesh (Titus 2:11â12). The need for self-control applies to every bodily appetite â for sleep, food, and caffeine, for example â but in particular to our sexual appetites (1 Corinthians 7:9). Those governed by the Spirit are learning, truly even if fitfully, to hear Godâs promises as louder than lustâs demands, and to refuse to give sexual immorality a seat among the saints (Ephesians 5:3). Walk by the Spirit The Spirit of God never indwells someone without also making him a garden of spiritual fruit. If we are abounding in these nine graces, then we are walking by the Spirit; if these virtues are absent, then no spiritual gift can compensate for their lack. How, then, should we respond when we find that the works of the flesh have overrun the garden? Or how can we continue to cultivate the Spiritâs fruit over a lifetime? We can begin by remembering three daily postures, the repetition of which is basic to any Christian pursuit of holiness: repent, request, renew. Repent. When the works of the flesh have gained control over us, we must go backward in repentance in order to go forward in holiness. Confess your sins honestly and specifically (perhaps using Paulâs list in Galatians 5:19â21), and then trust afresh in âthe Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for meâ (Galatians 2:20). Remember again that we are not justified by fruit, but by faith. Request. Apart from the renewing, fructifying presence of Godâs Spirit, we are all a cursed earth (Romans 7:18). If we are going to bear the fruit of holiness, then, we need to ask him âwho supplies the Spiritâ to do so more and more (Galatians 3:5). âThose governed by the Spirit are learning to hear Godâs promises as louder than lustâs demands.â Renew. Finally, we renew our gaze on Jesus Christ, whom the Spirit loves to glorify (John 16:14; Galatians 3:1â2). Here we find our fruitful vine: our Lord of love, our joyful King, our Prince of peace, our patient Master, our kind Friend, our good God, our faithful Savior, our gentle Shepherd, our Brother who has been tempted in every way as we are, yet with perfect self-control. Just as no one can sit beneath a waterfall and stay dry, so no one can gaze on this Jesus and stay fruitless. Heaven in Our Hearts Of course, renewing our gaze on Jesus Christ is more than the work of a moment. When Paul said, âI live by faith in the Son of Godâ (Galatians 2:20), he was speaking of a lifestyle rather than a fleeting thought or a brief prayer. We must do more than cast an eye in Jesusâs direction; we must commune with him. We cannot commune with Christ too closely, nor can we exert too much energy in pursuing such communion. If we make nearness to him our aim, we will find ourselves rewarded a hundredfold beyond our efforts. The Puritan Richard Sibbes once preached, Do we entertain Christ to our loss? Doth he come empty? No; he comes with all grace. His goodness is a communicative, diffusive goodness. He comes to spread his treasures, to enrich the heart with all grace and strength, to bear all afflictions, to encounter all dangers, to bring peace of conscience, and joy in the Holy Ghost. He comes, indeed, to make our hearts, as it were, a heaven. (Works of Richard Sibbes, 2:67) This is what we find when we walk by the Spirit of Christ: in making our home with him, he makes our hearts a heaven. Article by Scott Hubbard